What do people say they want from sex? What do they really want?
Am I normal? Why focusing on "normal" sex undermines sex
What is sexual intelligence? Why does it matter?
Your brain: information and knowledge
Your heart: emotional skills
Your body: awareness and comfort
Letting go: obstacles to developing sexual intelligence
New focus, new approach: developing your sexual intelligence
Embracing the inevitable: health and aging challenges
Creating sex that can't fail: using your sexual intelligence
Appendix: for couples therapists, psychologists, & physicians.
